The Red, White, and Blue of Marriage
The Red, White, and Blue of Marriage Happy Fourth of July! As I sit here thinking about Independence Day, I'm reminded of all the red, white, and blue that surrounds us this time of year. Flags wave from front porches, children run around with sparklers, families gather for cookouts, and when evening comes, we all look toward the sky waiting for the fireworks. This year I found myself thinking about those three colors a little differently—not just as the colors of our nation's flag, but as colors that remind me of my marriage. Red reminds me of love and sacrifice. Love isn't simply a feeling. If I've learned anything after more than twenty years of marriage, it's that love is demonstrated through everyday choices. It's choosing patience when I'm tired. It's saying "I'm sorry" when my pride wants to dig in. It's making dinner after a long day of teaching. It's watching my husband care for our home and family without expecting recog...